10 Ways to Say I Love You Without Saying I Love You

Some people are not able to say the three little words, "I love you." Although I think it's something that we should all strive for, for those who simply haven't gotten there yet, here are ten ways you can show it without uttering the phrase.
1.    Nothing says "I love you" more than laughing at your partner's bad jokes, especially if you've heard them a hundred times before. Making your loved one laugh is also a wonderful way of displaying your feelings.
2.    Find that special little something that your partner lost or said he or she wanted but could never find. Also, giving your partner a nicely framed photograph of the two of you is a very touching gesture.
3.    Do the manly-man or girly-girl thing. Many men say ILY by washing their mate's car and filling it with gas. Taking your man to a game, concert, car show or movie that he really likes is a great way to show that you want to be there for him.

4.    Help your partner heal a childhood hurt or loss. Perhaps the most powerful thing you can do is to just listen to his or her story about what happened and follow it up with a big hug.

5.    Show up at a business event as the loving spouse. This is all about giving.  Staying in a supportive role and praising your mate's efforts to everyone you talk to will make your partner feel uplifted and loved.
6.    When you're watching TV, snuggle up close with the one you love. Sitting across the room from each other in separate chairs may feel comfortable to your body, but it isn't fulfilling to your heart.
7.    Bedtime cuddling helps sustain a long-term loving connection. If you both need your own space for sleeping, that's fine. Just touch each other for fifteen minutes before you go to your side of the bed. By the way, those who engage in this activity also have healthier sex lives.
8.    Go above and beyond. Making a grand gesture every now and then is a wonderful way to show your love. Doing the extraordinary as a couple will help you create cherished memories.
9.    Doing something for your mate that he or she hates to do speaks volumes. We all have things in our lives that we dislike doing and when your partner gets the spider out of the bathtub or makes a midnight run so the kids can have milk in the morning, it really says ILY.
10. Being extra considerate on a daily basis works wonders. Saying "please" and "thank you," opening doors, helping your partner put on a coat, or putting a little love note in his or her pocket are a few of the little things that make a big difference.
Perhaps after showing (or being shown) your love in these ways, you will find it easier to speak the words. Just keep in mind that most of us want to hear them.

Mau Mau rebels win the right to sue Britain

 

Three elderly Kenyans were granted the right on friday to sue the British government for compensation over allegations of torture during the Mau Mau uprising that started 60 years ago.

The judgment at the High Court in London, described as "historic" by the Kenyans' lawyer, potentially opens the door to other claims of mistreatment by colonial officers across the British Empire stretching back decades.

The Foreign Office said it did not dispute that Kenya's colonial administration tortured the three Kenyans, all in their 70s and 80s, but added that it would still appeal against the ruling.

It claims that most of the potential witnesses to any court proceedings are dead, that too long has passed for a civil case to be brought, and that a fair trial would be impossible.

However Mr Justice McCombe, sitting in the High Court, said documentary evidence culled from imperial files was "voluminous".

"The governments and military commanders seem to have been meticulous record keepers," he said.
 

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"I have reached the conclusion that a fair trial on this part of the case does remain possible and that the evidence on both sides remains significantly cogent for the Court to complete its task satisfactorily."
The three claimants, Paulo Muoka Nzili, 85, Wambuga Wa Nyingi, 84, and Jane Muthoni Mara, 73, allege that they suffered beatings, castration and sexual assault during their detention by British troops during the rebellion. The uprising, between 1952 and 1960, led to thousands of Kenyans being interned under suspicion of being members of the outlawed Mau Mau sect, which fought the colonial administration.
Mr Nzili, Mr Wa Nyingi and Mrs Mara all want an apology from the British government and compensation for injuries they suffered and lifelong complications that followed.
"I hope that this means that the British government will finally come here to give us something to support our families and to help us," Mr Wa Nyingi told The Daily Telegraph in Nairobi.
Dozens of elderly Kenyans gathered in the Nairobi offices of a human rights organisation's offices to hear the judgment, and ululated, clapped and danced when it was announced.
Gitu wa Kahengeri, the head of the Mau Mau Veterans' Association, said it was "disappointing" that the Foreign Office was to appeal.
"It seems that their strategy is to continue to fight this thing on legal technicalities until we die," he said.
Martyn Day, a lawyer for the three Kenyans, said the judgment was "historic" and would "reverberate around the world".

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THE HIDEN STORY OF MAASAI

There are days I promise that I will bring you news which are related to many things of which other people understand it is very difficult, which is made by the Maasai community. Maasai society which I have the privilege of seeing and living at least in the short term is the Maasai community who are along the border region of Tanga district Kiteto or Manyara Region. In the Maasai community know I have been privileged to discover things of which is not very easy to know if you had the opportunity to have a close Maasai. And I know a lot of you'll know them today are going amazing and it's really amazing and maybe some you have never heard or experienced it.

. In those things which hiden and you can not easily know are as follows: -
 1.  is one among the tribes that are completely contrary to the community while at other Swahili people will kill for jealousy is quite different from the Maasai because the wife is able to go and seek her husband's second wife and three etc.. If required to do so and do not have much sexual jealousy that meet even the fighting action as it occurs in most societies of the world. I find a woman is his wife and they were very happy and I realized I was very surprised when I answered that this was a great wife and daughter I sought him marry my husband as a second wife to share in the work. Is she the sister of Swahili we can? Followers of example.
 2. If the big hedge Masai all unfortunately they died young will be even be a little old to less than ten years he delivered home as head of household, and it is accompanied by a be a wife first for head of household must have has a wife. this also I find it boy called Dainoni at the age of 12 years gets the calamity of his father forcing him to be the head of household, and there had to be given a wife who was 8 years old. Now get a 12 year old child anaoa another child of 8 years and the two begin life as wife and husband. Then when I asked how will things will do as usual? The answer was also amazing that the older morani as uncles etc are helping to make the issues that will have sex with the girl until the young man will be able to do it yourself.

3. This I want to ask yourself how you ever meet the Maasai mad? Or an albino? Or chronic disability? I have my answer is no, but this is why you can not meet this kind of people in Maasai? I wondered this question too that once the baby is born and discovered that he has a disability disability as large as the skin ie the albino child is killed immediately as they believe that it is a great misfortune to misfortune in the Maasai community. In this regard, if you met a Maasai same kind as he was born in the city or the hospital and is very unfortunate to find the mother of the Maasai gives birth hospital, so the problems of the tip as we've been used to seeing for many tribes to Maasai none at all and if the walls are not Maasai who grew up in the masai these days, though these practices have been flowing to the left, though very slow and cultures with some having as usual.

Many today are left with it then I will finish soon, I am sure you will agree that it is one among the Maasai tribes are amazing and enjoyable things other three meet next article and will come soon. stay still